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We'd be dead...without love. =]
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« Reply #1 on: July 30, 2011, 02:49:23 pm » |
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Yeah,and we'd be dead with hatred as well Yeah, hate kills BIG TIME. Like it really does PAIN. I can't hate anyone or allow myself to do so because it only makes my life miserable! |
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  Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.
When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]
Please make them strong ya Allah...
Romeesa-chan...<3
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« Reply #2 on: July 30, 2011, 02:54:07 pm » |
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Yeah, hate kills BIG TIME. Like it really does PAIN.
I can't hate anyone or allow myself to do so because it only makes my life miserable!
If you didn't know what hatred is,then you won't know what love is. |
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« Reply #3 on: July 30, 2011, 02:58:35 pm » |
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If you didn't know what hatred is,then you won't know what love is.
Well, I do know what hate is and that's why I said it makes my life miserable so I do not allow myself to hate anyone. What did Shakespeare say? "Love me or hate me, both are in my favor…If you love me, I'll always be in your heart…If you hate me, I'll always be in your mind." When you hate..you end up wasting your life thinking of the enemies. |
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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.
When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]
Please make them strong ya Allah...
Romeesa-chan...<3
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« Reply #4 on: July 30, 2011, 03:03:06 pm » |
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Well, I do know what hate is and that's why I said it makes my life miserable so I do not allow myself to hate anyone.
I don't know how you think,but I don't think I can live without hating and loving at the same time,thats just my way of life :S When you hate..you end up wasting your life thinking of the enemies.
I don't agree with you in that one,you don't just think of them,you think of erasing them  |
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« Reply #6 on: July 30, 2011, 03:15:04 pm » |
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I'm not going to lie to you and say that I hate anyone,and hating makes your whole life worse,but there comes a challenge,to divert you thinking,and its not easy at all :O
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« Reply #7 on: July 30, 2011, 03:27:25 pm » |
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I'm not going to lie to you and say that I hate anyone,and hating makes your whole life worse,but there comes a challenge,to divert you thinking,and its not easy at all :O
I'm not going to lie to you and tell you I'm an angel! I feel hate but that's where I try my BEST to get rid of it, LIKE not hate of a person but perhaps when I hear 'Israel' I feel hate but however I can't hate an entire race or an entire country when I don't know every single person of them. I hate what Israel is doing but I can't hate peaceful citizens because some of them are against what their own country is doing. There were those who back stabbed me before..those who hurt me and those who made me cry a lot. Now..I don't hate them for what they did to me, in fact I thank THEM. Wallah..I thank them because they taught me the BEST lessons in this life, they were one of the main reasons that I changed and became who I am now. It's always good to turn the negative energy into a positive one. Hating them, regretting the past and holding grudges won't do me any good and surely won't get me what I want. If I dislike someone..I try to fix them but if doesn't work out..I simply stay away and never think of them again. @Angel, speaking about hate... You sure hate your mouse now.  |
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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.
When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]
Please make them strong ya Allah...
Romeesa-chan...<3
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« Reply #8 on: July 30, 2011, 03:31:46 pm » |
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There were those who back stabbed me before..those who hurt me and those who made me cry a lot. Now.. I don't hate them for what they did to me, in fact I thank THEM. Wallah..I thank them because they taught me the BEST lessons in this life, they were one of the main reasons that I changed and became who I am now. It's always good to turn the negative energy into a positive one. Hating them, regretting the past and holding grudges won't do me any good and surely won't get me what I want. If I dislike someone..I try to fix them but if doesn't work out..I simply stay away and never think of them again. @Angel, speaking about hate... You sure hate your mouse now. I TOTALLY understand what you mean by that  ; It has happened to me as well =) Exactly, you should turn the negativity into positivity.  Haha, yeah i do hate it  |
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« Reply #9 on: July 30, 2011, 03:36:02 pm » |
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Hating only worsen things for us. I totally agree with you, Mony.  |
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« Reply #10 on: July 30, 2011, 03:39:06 pm » |
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I TOTALLY understand what you mean by that ; It has happened to me as well =) Exactly, you should turn the negativity into positivity. Haha, yeah i do hate it
I got the above concept, I learned the above concept because of THEM. Because of the trust they broke, the promises they never made and the lies that they made my hopes build on.
I truly thank them and now..I wish I could really tell them how much of use they were to me. Now, I don't feel slight of hate towards them at all. I swear. @Gossip, thanks. We should have a debate thread about this topic. |
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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.
When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]
Please make them strong ya Allah...
Romeesa-chan...<3
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« Reply #12 on: July 30, 2011, 04:17:33 pm » |
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I totally agree with everything what Mony said, its exactly how I feel If you didn't know what hatred is,then you won't know what love is. True, we need to have opposites in order to realize the importance of the other but we JUST have to understand or realise what it is. We dont need to apply it or its not like such things have to exist in our lives. About hate: We just need to know what hate is, how it affects our life, the disadvantages etc. We dont really have to HATE anyone in order to realise what love is |
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« Reply #13 on: July 30, 2011, 04:22:16 pm » |
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I totally agree with everything what Mony said, its exactly how I feel True, we need to have opposites in order to realize the importance of the other but we JUST have to understand or realise what it is. We dont need to apply it or its not like such things have to exist in our lives. About hate: We just need to know what hate is, how it affects our life, the disadvantages etc.
We dont really have to HATE anyone in order to realise what love is Exactly! Just like we don't have to kill ourselves to experience what death is.  But it is true, we all hated before because it's a normal feeling like any other feelings we come across, however..as we get older we must learn how to have self-control and control our own feelings. Just like those who control anger and others who control desires. |
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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.
When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]
Please make them strong ya Allah...
Romeesa-chan...<3
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« Reply #14 on: July 30, 2011, 04:34:12 pm » |
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Exactly! Just like we don't have to kill ourselves to experience what death is. But it is true, we all hated before because it's a normal feeling like any other feelings we come across, however..as we get older we must learn how to have self-control and control our own feelings. Just like those who control anger and others who control desires. Yes, Hate is worse than anger and i think hate is somewhat the root of anger, revenge etc. |
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